The holidays are full of memories and special moments. As moms, we’re often the ones behind the camera, capturing all these moments to hold onto forever. But what is the real reason we take these photos—are they for us, or for our kids? Of course, we love looking through old photos, but my hope is that my kids will look back and see how surrounded by love they were. I want them to see where they came from. That’s why I realized that while I was busy documenting their lives, I wasn’t in any of the pictures! I know I’m not the only mom who struggles with this. So, here are four simple tips to help get you in the photos this holiday season.
1. Enlist a Helper for Holiday Photos with Mom
One easy way to get in the picture is to ask a family member for help. I set up the camera settings and hand it off to my husband or another relative to snap a few photos. The holidays are the perfect time for this since there are plenty of people around during gatherings. If all your helper has to do is press the shutter, it makes it much easier for you to be included in the shot with your kids.
(This photo was taken by my father last Thanksgiving, and it’s one of my favorites because I’m in it with the kids!)
2. Use a Tripod and Remote or Self-Timer
A tripod can be a game-changer for getting everyone in the frame, including you. Set the tripod up using your partner as a focal point, then jump in once everything is ready. With a remote, you can control when the picture is taken, so no need to rush back and forth before the self-timer goes off. You can even set it up for special moments, like holiday meals, and capture candid moments without anyone thinking about the camera.
(Christmas morning is the perfect time to use a tripod and self-timer for holiday photos. This photo from a few years ago shows our Christmas jammies as a family!)
3. Embrace the Selfie with Your Smartphone
Sometimes, the simplest solution is a quick selfie. Kids love seeing themselves on the screen, and it usually leads to the best giggles and natural smiles. Use that to your advantage! Snuggle in close, give a few tickles, and snap away. It’s a quick and fun way to get some great shots with your kids all year, not just for holiday photos!
4. Hire a Professional for Holiday Photos You’ll Forever Cherish
Let’s face it—even photographers need someone else to capture their family moments. A professional photographer can help you feel relaxed and look your best. The holidays are a great time to update your family photos and create lasting memories. Plus, yearly portraits make a wonderful tradition and serve as a reminder to get in the photos too! They also make great gifts for friends and family.
(This photo was taken by the wonderful Miss Freddy last year, capturing a special moment only a professional knows how to highlight.)
Jump in those holiday photos, mama. Your future self (and your children) will thank you.