Let’s Talk About Those “Awkward Maternity Photos”
We’ve all seen them — the stiff poses, the forced smiles, the “what do I do with my hands?” kind of moments. When you’re pregnant, your body already feels unfamiliar, so the last thing you want is to end up with awkward maternity photos that don’t feel like you.
As a North Bend and Snoqualmie Valley maternity photographer (and a mom of six!), I get it. Being in front of the camera while your body is growing a human can feel vulnerable. But I promise — your maternity photos don’t have to be awkward. In fact, they can be joyful, empowering, and full of love.
The Secret to Avoiding Awkward Maternity Photos
Here’s the big one: choose a photographer you’re comfortable with and trust.
That comfort makes all the difference. When you feel relaxed, you can let your guard down — and that’s when the real magic happens. I always tell my clients, “If you can laugh with me, we’ll get photos you love.”
Being comfortable with your photographer means you also love their portfolios of work. You know they know what they are doing, so you can relax and let them do their job of beautifully photography you. When you don’t trust your photographer, awkward maternity photos can happen.
During sessions, I guide you with natural, movement-based prompts (no stiff posing or cheesy hand-hearts here — unless you love that kind of thing!). We’ll focus on connection — you with your partner, your baby bump, your excitement, your story.
Tips to Feel Comfortable and Confident During Your Maternity Session
Here are a few of my favorite ways to make sure your maternity photos feel anything but awkward:
- Wear something that makes you feel amazing.
Flowy dresses, soft textures, and outfits that move beautifully photograph best — and they help you feel comfortable and confident. When selecting what to wear, think about it like you on your best day. You will feel awkward in your maternity photos if your outfit is something you’d never wear. - Bring your partner (or kids!) into the mix.
Adding family creates genuine moments — laughter, snuggles, and that “we’re in this together” feeling. - Trust your photographer’s direction.
I’ll gently guide you into flattering light and natural poses that feel more like a deep breath than a photoshoot. - Focus on connection, not perfection.
The best maternity photos capture emotion — the anticipation, the love, the awe. Forget about “perfect angles” and lean into the moment. - Let go of expectations.
Every pregnancy is different, and that’s beautiful. Whether you’re glowing, swollen, or somewhere in between, you’re creating life — and that’s worth celebrating.
For more prep help, you might love my post on What to Wear for Maternity Photos .
Why Relaxed, Candid Sessions Make All the Difference in Avoiding Awkward Maternity Photos
When your session feels laid-back, your photos show it. I keep my maternity sessions low-stress and inclusive, whether we’re out in the mountains, exploring the Snoqualmie River trail, or cozied up at home. You’ll move, laugh, and maybe even forget there’s a camera around.
And don’t worry — I’ve seen it all. (Pregnancy brain moments included!) My goal is always to help you feel at ease and to capture that glowing, genuine version of yourself you might not even realize is there.
Ready to Ditch the Awkward and Embrace the Magic?
If you’ve been searching for how to avoid awkward maternity photos, start by finding a photographer who makes you feel like a friend. That’s where the real beauty begins.
✨ Let’s create maternity photos that feel relaxed, playful, and beautifully you. Reach out to book your maternity session here.